We sat at a booth and ordered drinks and just talked. He was sweet and kind've cute but I knew right off the bat I wasn't interested.
The biggest problem was unfortunately the age gap. He spent most of the time telling me funny college drinking stories about him and his buddies. He mentioned on more than one occasion about this girl or that girl that he dated. He even told me about a "no pants" party that he and his friends had one night after a wedding. I'm sure it was funny and I'm sure ya'll had a blast. But I'm not looking for a frat boy.
He kept ordering beer after beer, and telling story after story. He never once asked me a thing about me. Finally I ordered a water and said I had to call it a night. He looked crushed, but at that point I was in torture. I couldn't take another drunken frat party story another second.
He walked me to my car, the whole time trying to get me to stay a little longer. I felt bad but a lie rolled off my tongue. I told him I had to pick up my mom and dad from the airport really early. He said oh yea, where are they flying from? Me: Ummm..."Alabama?" I guess he bought it. I gave him a hug (this timem on purpose to avoid anything else, lol) and quickly jumped in my car.
He's already texted me twice today telling me how much fun he had and what am I doing tonight. Should I email him and just tell him politely that as sweet as he is, that I don't think we are compatible? But hey...even though I'm not interested, apparently the Cougar thing works for me! hahaha At least it was an interesting experiment. Ha! Next up Clemson Tiger maybe? We'll see.
Oh today, I stopped by Publix and picked these up to cheer myself up! (don't look at the unfinished paint job in the background though! That will be fixed by Monday)
And one more note. Remember my Remington Emi Hair Dryer I bought to curl my hair? Well I'm still loving it. And here's why: This is a picture of my hair after being slept on AND after going for a run at the park this morning! (I know, gross.) But seriously, it holds the curl amazingly well.
Hope ya'll are all having a great weekend!
12 comments:
You said it just right. Incompatible is a goooood word for it....and a much nicer brushoff than "you were late and sang MeMeMeMe all evening!"
...sigh...more fish in the sea, more Tigers in the jungle!
Sorry you had a crummy date night. Although I think your night was a little better than mine. I met up with a h.s. classmate to see the "The Time Traveler's Wife." After the movie, she had to get home to her kids, so I drove back home & got in around 9:00 pm. Uggghhh...I was so bored out of my mind! Living in a small town sucks! :(
If it makes you feel any better I spent last night in bed with my dogs watching old scifi tv show reruns on my computer. Ye-ah.
I would definitely let him down rather than ignore him. Something like "we're at different stages in our lives" or something about you're looking for someone in their 30s but wanted to give him a fair shot. I still believe honesty is the best policy. But I keep reading about people who don't believe they need to respond to every advance or message of attention.
Yeah... sounds like a immature guy... not what you need... but hey - at least it was something to do - right?
I'd wouldnt ignore him... but let him know you're not interested - but he sounds like a frat boy & they are at least fun to hang out with on a boring night! :)
Your hair looks great.. you should totally get commission for saleing some of those dryers!!!
I always use the line I picked up from someone's dating blog in the past: "Hey, it was really nice meeting you and thank you for an evening out, but that connection / certain something I am looking for wasn't there and I don't want to waste anyone's time" it sounds blunt but everyone I ever said it to totally agreed.
That stinks that it was a bad date. I agree the late thing and the frat boy attitude are not attractive. I'm younger than him and I don't want to date someone that talks about college drinking like that! Keep going girl; hey if nothing else you got a good dinner out of it! :)
Oh ew fratboys! I couldn't tolerate them in college & it doesn't seem they have much changed over the years. That was one of the first questions I asked my now husband when we first started dating because many a fratboy stays forever stuck in that groove & like women who still try to dress like they were 20 when they are now 50 - it's just creepy.
But dang girl - your hair looks fabulous!
I've never been a fan of frat boys- too self-absorbed in most cases- clearly the case with your date!!
Can't wait to hear more about the Tiger, though!
hair looks great, beautiful! date sounded EW. how many frogs til ya get to the prince? ;) u deserve way more than a frat boy! iloveyou!
ha ha ha too funny, poor guy but oh well! At least there isn't any awkward feelings. I would just say, you were late and you are TOO YOUNG ha ha jk :)
I had a really cute guy come into work one day and sold advertising to me. He then called me later and asked me out. I never thought once to ask and ON the date found out he was 9 years younger. He ended up getting along with my teenage boys really well. They hit it off playing WII. I remember Coltan and Cody's dad came to pick them up and we couldn't get any of them out of the room. Oh well, it was a learning experience and the boys had a great time....all 3 of them,(and I wasn't including Carson)LOL.
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